~the virtues of mentoring include humility, self acceptance, integrity, kindness, non-judgment, trustfulness, inner stillness, mindfulness, attentiveness, perseverance, patience & simplicity~
~these virtues of the soul prepare us for dealing with conflict & adversities in life~
~the values of the mentor include service~
~modeling, guidance, empathy, nurturance, harmony, cooperation, enthusiasm for change, joyful laughter, spontaneity, a centered heart and consistency~

Reframe or Restate
Use Neutral Language
LISTEN!
Speak from the “I”
Practice Compassion
Breath Deeply
Listen for Feelings, Common Ground, Options, Interests
Use your Imagination
Be Flexible
Be Yourself
Be Honest
Use Common Sense
Use Humor
Don’t Interrupt
Use the “Gandi” Approach
Model Good Communication

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